It’s amazing how distracted I have been lately. I feel like I am sitting cross-legged at the bottom of the deepest abyss in the cold ocean, everything shaded with the same murky green and unable to cut across to the ray of sunlight. I cannot really make out the difference between the reefs and the rocks.
I keep craving for a change and even once I have got it, the restlessness gets to me all over again. It feels like I have just been waiting and waiting for something to happen – almost, like I am waiting for my life to begin. Till then, I keep myself busy picking new ways to pass the time and in a snap, the novelty of it wears off. My focus is fuzzy and I am already thinking of Plan B and Plan M for the new Plan A.
On the face of it, someone looking from the outside will think I have a lot going on… But the sad truth is that I jump from one to another and back again in the hope that I will find something that will keep me engaged for long. I don’t want to be thinking of my next yoga session while I am trying to understand more about the Andromeda galaxy. When I am reading (and sniffing) the my John Steinbeck novel, I don’t want a visit by the prospects of an impending trip. I essentially seem to have the attention span of a goldfish.
My head doesn’t stop pounding and I feel like I am being unfaithful to the task on hand. I used to be someone who gives a 149% of my energy and focus on something and now I am barely skimming 20%. At first I thought I am getting bored and the monotony of day to day life is getting to me. But no. That’s not it. I am just not able to put my finger on the exact cause of this restlessness. It is a good restlessness though – whatever that means.
Thankfully I enjoy spending my time on all of it and none of them come with an expiry tag! I try to bring them together hoping that they form a complete picture but right now, all I have are broken pieces.
I keep searching for something that makes my heart skip a beat but perhaps, I am looking at the wrong place and maybe… I am looking for the wrong thing? I should try to discern what brings peace and tranquility to the incessantly fluttering heart.
Linda has given us the prompt “novel” for Stream of Consciousness Saturday. Letting this out felt so good.
So beautifully composed
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I can relate to a lot of this. Lots to mull over.
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Thank you
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Sounds like you may have
the traditional/classic
Dopamine
Variant Gene
per DRD4.. pARt
of what moves human
as nomad and novelty seeker
same.. and trULy
for me at leASt
the answer
has been
in almost
constant moving..
emotionally regulating..
integrating senses art of dance
that makes me focus like a locomotive
on tracks of forward.. i spent most of my life
in a haze when not moving like this in some way
of laser focus.. now i spend most of my life in laser
focus..
simply
’cause i don’t
have to work and
can dance all day and
night if i like.. not usually
allowed in the corporate world
haha.. anyway.. i feel the muddy waters
of the past in less than stellar cognitive
executive functioning in focus and short
term working memory.. but now i move faster
and in more directions
than the locomotive
of before
could
have
ever imagined..
grow across the life
span from birth to last breath
of life.. i’ve seen others do it..
just had to find a way that worked
for me.. in a free space of life.. anyWay..
never the less keep on keeping on what works
the best
for you
my friEnd..
no prescription
naturally is guaranteed
for any human alone.. for success..
oh yeah.. and Hi Prjakta.. too.. small
talk is not something i am very good at ‘yet’..;)
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Thank you so much 🙂 I agree completely! We should just let it flow naturally without internalizing so much.
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Thanks2..
with
SMiles
My FrIEnd..:)
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It sounds to me like you are figuring things out. Self improvement is a good thing, but don’t be too hard on yourself. Hey, I’m talking to myself, too. 🙂
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I think we all need to take it easy once in a while! 🙂
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Beautiful. 🙂 🙂 This happens to all of us at some point or the other
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That reminded me of the times in my life where I started all kind of things (which I loved) in order to be busy and prove that I am not a lazy person…. until I found out that I don’t need to care what anyone thinks and I simplified again because it all became too much.
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I agree Erika, the only person we should answer to is ourselves!
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Exactly, because only we know what we really want!
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I agree, sometimes a restless spirit is one of ingenuity and can be highly productive. And I agree, sometimes it’s exhausting. Tedium is orderly, but dull. Too much of a good thing is exhausting. Seeking balance and looking inward to decide, well that’s admirable 🙂
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You have summed it up so well… Doesn’t make me feel so bad 🙂 Thanks Joey!
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I think Praj you explore the situation so well, maybe you expect too much, writing and focus will come but first you may have to go through what you are experiencing now in order to get to that point in your life. You do write very well.
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Thank you for your encouraging words, Michael.
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A perfect stream of consciousness write-up… I loved how you said “sniffing the book” 😀 ( I do it too)
By the way, you at least had been able to catch a glimpse of the squirrel. One comes to our roof at times and I have tried hard to click it…all in vain… 😦
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Ha ha 😀 Thank you! Older the book – better the smell.
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Yes 😀 and different books have different smells…
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It does sound good, and feels right to the roots. 🙂
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Thanks!
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This struck a chord. I have had my share of confusing phases, as well. It’s a pain to not know what’s going on in your mind and why. But, since yours is a “good restlessness,” maybe it is okay to sit back, accept, and let time tell. Take care. ❤
P.S. That squirrel, though. I have always wanted to get close to a squirrel. They keep running away. I wonder why. Glad you could capture that lovely photograph! 🙂
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I am glad you could connect with it 🙂 That squirrel definitely was in a playful mood – I got lucky!
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May be sit down and have some chocolate Prajakta 😀 😛 As always, again here I am, thinking how much do you actually think! Cheers.
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I don’t think I go a second without thinking 😀 Thank you!
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How you make the amazing picture speak, lending emotions and beliefs:) Great write up:)
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Oh I can relate to this so much. I, too have seemed to lost all focus and motivation tonne honest. I’ve been so lost lately, in need of some drastic change that can make me feel alive again….
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