The images behind the frame have changed every few days, so much so that it is difficult to keep up. My only fear is that I shouldn’t forget the significance of each shifting view and what it meant for me.
Hi! Are you there, folks? It’s me, Prajakta π Fumbling over keystrokes – it takes 3 weeks to break a habit; I had almost three months to lose the grasp of a basic laptop! I am finally sitting in front of a laptop and it was a whirlwind ride to get here.
Let me cut to the chase – I have moved from Pune, India to Toronto, Canada. D and I got some fabulous news earlier this year in the form of our Permanent Residence and well, the rest is history. We literally moved lock, stock AND barrel to Toronto and are in the process of settling down. The apartment we have rented is slowly starting to look like a home, the cracks on the pavement outside the street are slowly becoming familiar, and more importantly, the aisles of the supermarket are becoming fast friends!
How did I get here? Well, I quit my job sometime earlier this year and decided to vacation for about two months in the US before hopping over to Toronto to join D. I was crashing at my sister’s in Houston while making trips to San Francisco, Chicago and Boston π Solo travelling was great but then, what the heart craves after a while is a steady pace with days spent in pajamas.
The reason I did not say anything here is that, well, I am stupid. I didn’t want to jinx anything. I was so scared of things not working out, of the job hunt turning desperate and of life becoming difficult that I just wanted to keep my mouth shut lest I bite my words in the future. I also want to say the biggest THANK YOU to Colin from meandrayΒ for being a fabulous help during the move! He was beyond kind and supportive during this transition, providing us with tidbits of information that made apartment hunting, understanding the public transport and the general neighborhoods so much easier. Once again, thank you!
Whew! How is everyone doing?
P.S. What a coincidence – I open my blog after months on my 4 Year anniversary on WordPress! I am in Kindergarten now π
Welcome Praj. Looking forward to your writing regularly after a gap of few months. Enjoy this new phase of life. God bless you and your d
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Thank you Daddy π You come soon now!
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You’re both very welcome. I hope that you are adjusting to living here, and feel that it was a good move! π
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Two months in and I can say it seems to be an awesome decision! Hope to share the finer details soon π
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Wow, so fantastic! Enjoy Canada π
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Thanks a lot, Himali π It has been good.
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Haha! Congratulations on your new home, residency, laptop, and WP anniversary!
I love the bit about the cracks in the pavement, how utterly relatable! Only a writer would think of that!
I know what you mean about jinxing it. I just wrote about my great new job Friday, 100 days in, and it’s all I can do to not think I’ll get fired or the place will burn down and ruin all my gratitude! LOL Sometimes I take a long time to share, and that’s okay π
It’s nice to read you!
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Thanks a lot π It is still my old cranky laptop but well, it knows the grind. I hope you are now an oldie at your job and scoffing at the new recruits that are bumbling around – always nice to show off your superiority a little π
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What amazing news, Prajakta. So cool that you moved to Canada. I wish you to settle down and get part of the Canadian life quickly. This is so exciting!
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Thanks a lot, Erika π Things have been going well and finally life has settled into a stead pace! Looking forward to hear the exciting developments at your end.
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Sounds wonderful, Prajakta! Big hugs over to Canada!
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Welcome back! And welcome to the western hemisphere! Thanks for taking a chance on us over this way. You are not stupid at all. I get not wanting to make big announcements when it’s not a sure thing. It’s so nice to see you blogging again. And Congrats on the 4 years! π
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Thank you very much JoAnna! It has been mad and exciting but finally forming a routine with work and the other “normal” things. I am going to be around more now – finally feel like I have slowed down enough to pause and truly get in the groove of things.
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Yay!
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Welcome to North America! Happy Anniversary, tooπ
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Thank you Robb π Slowly getting used to this madness!
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Itβs non stop madness, tooπ
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Must have been a big decision moving to Canada. I am currently in Uae and always contemplate whether I should have processed the PR process which i had initiated 4 years back. But then I look back at what I will be leaving behind if I process PR and then feel I dont want to do that. This has been the case for 4 long years! Congrats on your 4th one though π
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Thanks a lot! It has a been a wonderful journey and if you do decide to act on your PR process, then I am sure it’ll be great for you too π
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Hello, Prajakta! I do believe I am entering Your site for the first time. …You write Well. Kudos on having Settled in. …What impresses me is that You would go for — Perfection! Wow! π
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Thanks a lot π It is a very special feeling…
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SMiLes Prajakta as far as Window Views go i had to check back on
the Very Beginning of Your Blog to see if i was here at the First
Post you Wrote but no it appears it was sometime later in
the Ending Part of 2014 but never the less it seems
i’ve been Viewing the Changes in your Life
through this Window you
Provide and Happy to see
you are settling in Canada
as that is verily a Progressive
Nation of More Liberal Freedoms still..
Anyway.. glad to See you Back and stArting
to Thrive again hope Your New Home is Good
to You and will continue to see you around through Your Window View here..:)
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It has been absolutely wonderful to see how you have been a virtual participant and supporter of the changes that I have gone through… and that is what is special about our community! Thank you very much!
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SMiLes Again Prajakta as it is Often True we learn More About People in the
WordPress Community in a Few Years than what we may Learn about
Folks we Work with for Decades or Even Family Members in Some Cases
As Yes.. the Written Word Brings a Unique
Focus that not many other
Mediums Allow
for Deeper
Introspection
in Soul Searching
that we ourselves may
in deed learn more about ourselves
by the next Sentence we Finish and Review too..
I suppose it’s all about a way to Flow And A Much
Deeper Opening of Subconscious Mind now that
is Revealed as a New Friend of ours that is us too
my FriEnd.. Anyway.. Always my Pleasure to visit..:)
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Such a massive undertaking Prajakta, and I am very happy the puzzle pieces are falling in to place. It would be a wonderful feeling after living out of a suitcase to have this apartment in Toronto to call as your new home. Welcome to Canada! π
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Thank you so much π The settling process is almost and done I am a little bit ready to face the dipping temperatures!
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All the best for this new phase in your life. I am sure it is a big change and will take some adjusting to.
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Thanks a lot, Ankur! Settling and forming a sort of routine now π
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Good wishes to both of you.
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I hope and wish you good luck for you and D in the new place π
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[…] Prajakta (24 comments) from the blog An Armchair Perfectionist. This past year was monumental for Prajakta and her recent husband with a move lock, stock and barrel from Pume, India to Toronto, Canada. […]
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So happy for you π I hope life in new city and country is treating you well π its extremely cold there π so how are you keeping up with it π after seeing no winters in Pune π
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From Pune to Toronto? Whoa! I was just talking to Colin the other day and he told me about your move to Canada. Congratulations on your new home and all the very best for your new life there. π
P.S.: I’m secretary (not a secret anymore π€¦) jealous of you getting to meet Colin, Carol and the sweet Ray! I’m sure you had a great time!
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Oops! I meant I’m secretly* jealous
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Thank you so much:) He has been a wonderful support – meeting him, Carol and Ray was a joy indeed! Ray is a darling – very shy but he nudged me π
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Hehe… amazing! ππ
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